Applause at funerals

In the world we occupy, change tends to come slowly. In the past, mourners almost never applauded during a funeral service. Now when a member of the family or a close friend delivers a particularly moving tribute or eulogy, people often instinctively begin to clap. I sometimes notice others hesitate, questioning whether such a response is appropriate in the context of a funeral. I remember there was some fuss about applause during the funeral service of Diana, Princess of Wales.

For some, applause may feel surprising, as the services we conduct are, in part, derived from religious funeral traditions, where applause is not customary. While this is not universally the case, it was certainly my experience growing up within the Church of England.

Where appropriate, I am very much in favour of applause. Funeral services are emotionally charged occasions, and collective applause can provide a powerful moment of release. As a celebrant, I would never initiate applause, but I am always happy to join in.