Charles Preen

Funeral Celebrant

‘If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together, keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever.’ AA Milne

I am an independent funeral celebrant and a member of the Academy of Professional Celebrants.

My role is to help a family that has lost a loved one find the best way to say goodbye.

Planning the ceremony

As a celebrant, my role is to help create a funeral service that feels personal and heartfelt, honouring the life of the person who has died. Every ceremony is different, and I take care to find the right words to tell their story with warmth and respect.

I meet with the family to talk through their wishes, listen to their memories, and gather the details that matter most. From this, I put together a first draft of the service. Families often add or adjust things along the way, and together we shape it until it feels just right.

On the day, I use the final script to lead the service. Afterwards, I place it in a simple folder and give it to the family. At first, I wasn’t sure whether I should do this, but I’ve learned it often brings comfort. Alongside the Order of Service, it becomes a keepsake to return to in the days and years ahead.

It’s always a privilege to help families celebrate the life of someone they love, and I’m grateful for the trust they place in me at such an important time.

“I pride myself on putting authenticity at the centre of my personally written services. Through close discussion with family and friends we put together the story of their loved one, in a manner of their choosing. “